It's always the next one

My friend sent me this and find it quite meaningful. So post it here to share it and also, some of my thoughts. I'm sure many people have came across this before and ended up regreting their choices.

"When the bus come, you look at it and you said to yourself, "eeee... so full...cannot sit down one". So you said to yourself, "I'll wait for the next one."so you let the bus go and waited for the second bus.

Then the second bus came,you looked at it and you said, "eeee... this bus so old...surely very uncomfortable one." So you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

After awhile,another bus came.It's not crowded and not old but you said, "eeee... no air-con one...and the weather is so warm, better wait for the next one." so again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late. You panicked and jump on to the next on coming bus.It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded on to the wrong bus!

So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you want! Even if an aircon bus came can you ensure that the aircon bus won't break down or will the aircon be too cold for you?

So people...(mostly girls but guys too!) want to make sure that what you want is not wrong. But it wouldn't hurt to give other people a chance, right? If you found that the "bus" doesn't suit you just press the red button and get off the bus!

But wait...I am sure all of you have this experienced before. You saw a bus is coming (the bus you want of course) you flagged it and the driver acted blur by pretending not seeing you and zoomed pass you!

The bottom line of being loved is like waiting for a bus and whether you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance depends totally on you and walking alone is just like being out of love."

Well, true enough. But I guess many gals will juz choose to not take the bus rather than taking the wrong one.

"If you love someone set him/her free. If he/she comes back to you, you know they're yours. If they don't then it was never meant to be. "

Li Zhi mentioned the above sentence in her Music Diary last night (21st July 03). I think it makes sense, but only to some extent. Who knows, that person may not come back to you bcos he or she loves u but rather, of some other reasons...

"Remember to always say what you mean. If you love someone, tell. Don't be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time,it might be too late. Seize the day. Never have regrets. "

It always easier to say than do. Taking the initiative to tell someone your feelings towards him/her needs lotza courage and few gals can do that.